Dreams and Dominos

I slept well last night and woke up after a pleasant but strange dream about someone I knew very well in the past.  

I had a dream of Brad that was real enough that I want to record it. I was entering a large and beautiful building and stairs were leading up on the right and leading down on the left.  At least the people seemed to know in which direction to move.   Someone was with me.  I had a feeling that it was my parents and that we were on the right going up.  Brad had been released from jail and wanted to see me.  It took me some time to reach him because there were many rooms in this building.  We finally came to a room and I entered and met Brad.  He did not greet me with a kiss and he was taller than I remember him but he was waiting for me.   It was like a movie theater.  People were sitting in seats watching something on a screen.  I wanted to leave to go look at something and when I tried to return to Brad I couldn’t find him.  I searched for him and I began to wake up, never finding him.  That is the general gist of the dream.  It was unusual because of its length and clarity and detail.  The dream is significant but I don’t know how or why.  The intensity of the dream disturbs me.  But, as with most dreams, it is fading fast. 

I got up, dressed, and came downstairs to check my email and FaceBook.   And decided to take my walk although I was hesitant because it was cloudy and on the verge of sprinkling.  It was cool and I decided to take the second half of my walk first.  Towards the river.

 

The Merrimack River by Merrimack Meadows 

My Domino’s Group met yesterday and I had just completed printing all my photographs from walking and putting them in an album.  They (5) all looked at it and thought they were very good and all suggested I show them to Joe Silva who oversees Merrimack Meadows.  They thought I should go professional.  Sue remarked that I had an “eye” for seeing the beauty around me.  I was very flattered!  Sue liked the car fenders and noted that I had not included hers so I went there this morning to photograph the rear of her car!  When I  completed the second half I still had energy and walked a bit further but it began to sprinkle so I turned around and headed for home.

I came in and wanted to download the photos I took yesterday as well as the few I took this morning but I was unable to do so.  I was having the same troubles as I had before.  I tried everything I could think of to do but gave up and waited until the time change indicated that Cheryl would be up.  She was and she suggested I turn the camera on!  Which is what I had failed to do before!  These kind of quirks drive me nuts!!!  Not remembering to do something so basic and so simple! 

The pictures that I took at the Domino’s Group were good and the few I took this morning were good.  I do so enjoy my camera!            

"Practice random kindness and senseless acts of beauty."

"Practice random kindness and senseless acts of beauty" is my newest fortune cookie.  I'm not off to a very good start!  

I do not handle frustration very well!  I am not patient and quickly become irritated with myself and that further exacerbates whatever the problem is!  This morning I had difficulty with my printer working and it cost me a lot of expensive photo paper and a lot of very expensive ink!  I wanted to complete my project of filling a photo album with the pictures I have taken while walking.  It seemed urgent to complete it because the Dominoes Group is meeting this Friday and I want to show them what I am doing.

I considered the possibility of buying a new printer but that wasn't a good option because 1. I couldn't really afford it and 2. I wouldn't know how to set the printer up!   

I got caught in the urgency of my wishes and finally gave up struggling (a wise thing to do) and went for my walk later than usual. It was dark and dreary outside but it wasn't raining.  I decided to walk the back half of my two mile walk for a change and finish the front half later in the day.  It was delightfully cool and I began to calm down.  I crossed paths with the woman from Persia and CoCo, her dog.  I told her I had a photo of him and would bring it next time for her.  She seemed very pleased and was so lovely.  I really hope to know her better.

By the time that I returned I was able to fix the printing problem and
complete what I wanted to do.  My mind seems to shut down when
confronted with a problem.  I don't know why.  It didn't before.  It is one of the reasons I am walking.  It is supposed to be good for your brain!  Now I have a lot of cutting to do.

I was very pleased to receive an email this morning from Bill and Arlene Browning the Junior and Senior Warden at St. John's asking me to be a part of the Discernment process to make a recommendation to the Vestry whether to call the Priest-in-Charge as Rector.  I agreed to do it and hope that I can make at least some contribution.  I also need to get started on the Newsletter I volunteered to do.

"What Do We Mean When We Say GOD?"

I awoke at 4:30 this morning, having awakened only once during the night.  Then I realized that I had slept for 8 hours!  I reached for my prayer book.....during the very slow process of restoring order after falling down the stairs and subsequently being hospitalized for leukemia I attempted to rearrange some of my books.  I collected my Books of Common Prayer and stacked them together and placed them on my desk and later moved them to the headboard in my bedroom.  I do not now know where they all came from but I know that I never found a red leather bound copy that was mine--easily identified by the scribbles on the first page made by one of my children when they were very young!  Being very fond of books I was adamant about the proper way of caring for them!  It was placed in my new end table that was a display case for treasured
items.  

I have searched and searched and all of my adult children who have visited me have also searched but the Book of Common Prayer that was mine during my marriage has never shown up.   Strange, that scribbles which disturbed me mightily when they occurred could become so precious in later years!

I have decided to rearrange my collection of prayer books.  My small red leather book was published by the Oxford University Press in 1952 and is certified that "this edition of the Book of Common Prayer conforms to the Standard book of 1928, as amended by subsequent actions of General Conventions.  A Morning Resolve and For Today is pasted on the cover and first page of the book so I know that I was using it in 1980.  It is small and is written in out dated language and different categories.  I read from it this morning and decided to carry it in my purse.  

I have a larger version which is black and all of the services are separated by tabs and favorite prayers are marked with red ink underlining!  I am keeping it here at my computer along with my dictionaries and a Book of Common Prayer that is book size with a normal hard back covering published by Oxford University Press
in February 1990.

I went for my walk at 7 o'clock.  It was very pleasant and cool and the Lemillin workers greeted me along the way.  They are making good progress.  I saw the other greyhound who lives in the complex! He is tan and beautiful.  Greyhounds are so elegant.  

Among the books I found a small book that I had read several years ago called "WHAT DO WE MEAN WHEN WE SAY GOD?" compiled by Deidre Sullivan, published in 1990.  It is 125 pages of
a random sample of people from all walks of life who answered the question.  I think that it would make a good format for St. John's Newsletter which I have agreed to write this month.  "I believe in the sun even when it isn't shining.  I believe in love even when I am alone.  I believe in God even when He is silent."  Writen by a Jewish refugee, World War II, Poland.

The Days Dwindle Down...

To a precious few...
And the days grow short
When you reach September...


Two thirds of the year is gone.  Four months are left and then
another year will have passed.  In terms of human life, very few persons live to be 100.  My father died at age 89.  My mother died at age 85.  Maybe I will live until I am 90.  That means that I have 10 1/2 years left.  The days have grown short!  

Elli is the name of the Norse Goddess of Old Age.  I have been an Episcopalian for 61 years and a Baptist and Methodist before that but emulating a Norse Goddess of Old Age appeals to my fantasy! In Norse Mythology the God Thor is challenged to wrestle with Elli and he is brought to his knees in the struggle.  Not even the God Thor is immune to the effects of aging!  

As I struggle with the effects of aging

Life Stages

Let's assume arbitrarily that our life span is 100 years or 5 twenty year stages.  Childhood from Birth to Adulthood 20 years, Young Adults from age 20 to 40, Middle Aged Adults from 40 to 60, Mature Adults from age 60 to 80, and Older Adults from age 80 to death.  

The needs and desires of each stage of development are different. As unique individuals, born with certain talents and propensities, our abilities will vary throughout the stages of life.

I am about to enter my last stage of life, being 79 going on 80, so my faculty's may have begun to fail me on occasion but I feel competent to express my opinion on a matter of great concern to
me.

The church that I have attended for 25 years has slowly declined to having a quarter time priest.  Two other priests and a Deacon voluntarily offer their services so we are able to have communion every Sunday.  

Which group is the most important to reach if you want to influence all the groups?  Which group is the most likely to reach mature decisions?  Which group is at the top of their game, so to speak?
My vote would be cast on the Middle Aged Adults 40 to 60 years of age.  Why? The Young Adults, ages 20 to 40 are busily engaged in establishing their working lives, raising their children, and possibly caring for ageing parents.  Children are busy growing up.  They can be influenced at a young age if their busy parents are so inclined.  If not, the seed of religion is not planted.  If you want to increase your influence look to those who are wondering what their life will be like when their children are grown.  

So many people seem to think that we can revive our churches by providing programs that appeal to children.  Instead of placing our focus on the young why don't we place our focus on an older group of people?  Instead of ignoring the needs of those who are growing older why not provide meaningful programs for the faithful?

Are we so enamored of youth that we ignore four stages of growth?

Chinese Fortune Cookies

Yesterday was a very nice day for me.  And this morning has been a good morning.  After my morning walk yesterday I drove to New Hampshire to see my friend Julie.  I met Julie 39 years ago at Fitchburg State College where we both had returned to school to complete our education that was interrupted when we were married. We were both Army wives living at Fort Devens, MA.  Julie's husband was a dentist and mine was an artilleryman.  I had four children and she had four children.  We became friends and have remained friends.  We have gone through many major changes in our lives and have always been sounding boards for each other.

This morning was a good morning because it was the once monthly meeting of the Gen-Ex Bible Study Group.  I have been a member since Fr. Gordon White invited me to attend many years ago!  This morning I learned that Fr. Don Lozier can properly be called The Reverend Doctor Don Lozier!  He has a doctorate as well as being ordained as a priest.  I have always known that he is well above average in smartness!  I am truly impressed!  Jean Pinard, also a member of the group, has a doctorate.  I have always known that I was very blessed to be in good company!   

I was dressed and ready to go for a walk before Bible Study but I had only gone a short distance when it began to rain.  Remembering my last walk in the rain I decided to not risk it and returned home!  According to the weather report, it will be sunny this week-end.

Julie and I decided to go to a Japanese Restaurant we both like and enjoyed the Fried Rice,  I received another Fortune Cookie which read "Struggle as hard as you can for whatever you believe in."  If I were to go back to school now, I would major in religion.  Or perhaps I would have pursued the possibility of ordination much sooner in my life.  Having been approved for ordination to the diaconate and then told that I could not be ordained, because I had turned 72, was very disappointing.

The Gen-Ex Bible Study Group

The Reverend Doctor Lozier!

Odds and Ends

I slept later than usual this morning.  By the time I had bathed and dressed and spent some time checking my email and FaceBook it was time to go for my walk at 7:15.  My walking friend Linda was walking her dog, Scooter, and very kindly agreed to take a picture of me!

                                          This is Linda!

This is me!

I am beginning to be aware that I am sleeping better.  I still awaken but I am not having lengthy bouts of insomnia falling back to sleep.
We ran into some children that Linda knew who were walking to the entrance to wait for the school bus.  I photographed a young girls back pack because she had adorned it with so many things!

I continued my walk and nothing else caught my attention!  

I mentioned the Delicious Fried Rice that I had for lunch yesterday but forgot to mention my Fortune Teller Cookie!  It read "You will travel to exotic places on your next trip."  A very nice fortune!  It reminded me of the movie I like so well "The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel" which is about a group of British "elderly" retirees who move to Jaipur, India to take up residence.  Judi Dench (my favorite actress), Bill Nighy, and Maggie Smith and four other well know actors play roles in the movie.  I recommend it highly!

I thought that Thanksgiving would be my next trip but maybe not!  I like the sound of "exotic!"

A not well known fact of the Civil War:  In 1861 Sally Louisa Tompkins was commissioned a cavalry captain.  She was the only woman to be commissioned in the confederate army.  There were however female soldiers disguised as men who fought.  Capt. Tompkins was a nurse and established a hospital in Richmond, Virginia.  

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The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel 

"Evelyn:  Nothing here has worked out quite as I expected.

Muriel:  Most things don't, but sometimes what happens instead is the good stuff!"

Consistency

I completed the first half of my two mile walk before the Bible Study Group met.  The weather forecast for today was cloudy (but it rained anyway) with temperatures between 69 degrees and 65 degrees.  It will be the same for three days with scattered thunder storms on Thursday.  Saturday and Sunday are supposed to be sunny!  It will be a challenge to walk two miles every day for the next three days.

Dean emailed me this morning to congratulate me on yesterday's increased "speed" and acted as my coach by saying that "Consistency" is the key to success.  I would love to earn a Turkey-Trot T-Shirt  but I don't think running is in my future.  My sense of balance is much improved but I don't think that Dr. Sprague will ever recommend running.  It sounds like too much of a risk.  

I arrived at church at 9:30 a.m. I chose to take The Jerusalem Bible today.  It has received reviews as being the best translation of the Bible.  And I was very pleased with it.  But it differed from other translations, having a few extra verses.  It caused some confusion. We are reading Leviticus, reading three chapters and discussing them quickly.  I wish we had reverted to the New Testament again after reading Genesis and Exodus.  

After Bible Study I went to the Post Office to mail the quilting fabric to Sandra.  I was truly shocked--it cost $22!  Then I headed home and stopped at the Chinese Restaurant in the Shopping Mall right outside Merrimack Meadows to order Fried Rice for lunch.  They make several kinds, all of which are good, but my favorite is a Thai
recipe of curried rice with large-cut onions, chicken, and sea food, usually shrimp, but today they had added some lobster!  It was very, very delicious!  

Now, I am home and am watching "Rizzoli and Isles," one of my favorite TV Programs.

And we are never too old to study the Bible.  Each time the lessons are studied comes some new meaning, some new thought which will make us better.             

                                                  John D. Rockefeller

   

The Autumn Leaves

According to the Merriam Webster Dictionary, "Autumn is the season between summer and winter comprising in the northern hemisphere usually the months of September, October, and November or as reckoned astronomically extending from the September equinox to the December solstice —called also fall."

Autumn arrived last night.  The days are shorter and the nights are growing longer. The Canada Goose is in flight.  And the temperature dropped to 51 last night.  I had a wonderful two mile walk today in sunny weather wearing a fleece jacket, a knit cap and gloves in addition to my usual walking clothes.  I am humming the lyrics to "The Autumn Leaves!"

According to a 10 day weather report, we will enjoy sunny days four days, and cloudy weather with rain five days, and one day of scattered thunder storms with our highest temperature being 85 degrees and our lowest 51 degrees.  It will require ingenuity to stay in "training" during inclement weather!  Especially when the New England winter comes.

I walked to the entrance of Merrimack Meadows this morning and started back following the loops.  I was delighted and surprised to see Curly again standing in front of his door.  I took two pictures of him and they are better than the pictures I took  yesterday.  The lighting was better.  

I kept walking, hoping to be inspired for taking pictures.  I have taken pictures of the flags on display, pictures of the ways people have decorated their doors, I have shot pictures of pets and photographed the small gardens that were attractive and photographed all of the signs.  Today I decided to take pictures of the large rocks that have been used in the complex.  

Now is the season of apple picking and enjoying the fall foliage!

Raindrops Keep Falling on My Head!

I started on my walk this morning, a few minutes after seven, and the sun was shining.  It promised to be a beautiful day.  I walked less than a block and the sky had darkened.  A few drops of rain began to fall.  It was impossible to determine the weather forecast so I kept on walking and hoped for the sun to shine again.  It didn't.  I made it to the entrance of Merrimack Meadows and the rain began to fall a bit heavier.  I was getting wetter and wetter!  I stopped at my mail box to collect the mail and clutching it to my chest I hurried on home. I may have walked a half mile:(  

Not much progress in my training for the Turkey Trot.  A 5K (3 mile) or a 10K (6 mile) run or walk on Thanksgiving morning that everyone except me has participated in, sponsored by Carlisle, PA. The family usually gathers at Dean's for a feast on Thanksgiving and he and Dawn have invited everyone again this year.  It has become a family tradition. He is very happy about my walking program and encourages me to join the family at the Turkey Trot.  I am walking two miles now.  Surely I can make it to three miles by Thanksgiving. If the weather will only cooperate! 

I called Dean for two reasons.  One, he bought two loaves of bread at "When Pigs Fly" and they were missing when he got home.  I have done a search and they are not here.  The second reason was that the sound on my TV was not working and I wondered if he might know what the problem could be.  He solved my TV problem immediately by suggesting that the remote button on my control might have been accidentally hit and was on "remote".  I wasn't even aware that I had a remote button.  It is infinitesimally small!  I remembered several things that needed attention but forgot when Dean was here.  He suggested that I make a list and keep it posted somewhere convenient.  The faucet in the kitchen sink that is frozen in  place and cannot be moved.  The cabinet in my bathroom that is ruined on the inside from a water leak.  A new cabinet will have to be installed.  

I told Dean that Kady probably had the loaves of bread.  She had picked them out and probably unloaded them at her mother's.  They aren't ordinary loaves of bread.  Each cost $6 and are made with wonderful ingredients!

It looks as if it will clear and I may be able to finish my walk this afternoon!   


You don't choose your family.  They are God's gift to you, as you are to them.
                                                                                 Desmond Tutu

Happy Birthday, Dawn!

I didn't walk yesterday because 1. it was pouring down rain and 2. I was doing the laundry (sheets and towels) and 3. I was exhausted! We went to Kittery, Maine the day before to enjoy shopping at the outlet stores and having lobster again for lunch at the Weathervane. Followed several hours later at Kimball's for more ice cream.  The day started with a 2 mile walk through the Merrimack Meadows Complex with Kady and Murphy, with Dean and Dawn joining us early on.  

It is one hour's drive to Kittery.  We stopped at "The Trading Post" first--one of our favorite stores.  I took my first picture of the day there, a repeat of a picture I had taken on a previous visit!

Travis, Kady, Dean, Dawn, and Charlie

We went to most of our favorites but everything is less of a bargain now.  In one store there was a knit cap that looked like the cap Kady had liked in Norway for $80!  It was $35 and I bought the cap for her. It was made in China, but the cap in Norway could have been made in China! Dean and Dawn went to several stores of cooking ware and bought a very nice baking pan for large muffins.  Looking for something in my kitchen Dean had discovered at least 12 muffin mixes!  I hope I can redeem myself!  After our seafood lunch we shopped some more, coming to an end at "When Pigs Fly."  A wonderful designer bakery for original breads.  I thought that they used to be expensive at $4 a loaf but they are now $5 to $8. Nevertheless I couldn't resist buying at least one loaf with raisins and mangoes.   

The trip was fun because making the trip is a Stodter family tradition. And eating Sea Food at the Weathervane is a family tradition!  Just as Kimball's is a family tradition!   So we drove home and went to Kimball's before coming home.  Kady baked a cake to celebrate Dawn's birthday.  It was delicious and decorated with the Norseman

logo!  I looked through Wikipedia for all the names of Norseman Gods and Goddesses but none listed were good names for Dawn. There are many Gods but not so many Goddesses!  I did however find one for me!  The Goddess Elle--the Goddess of Old Age!!!

We must have walked at least 5 miles that day and I was exhausted!!!

Dawn

I went for my walk at 7 o'clock this morning and walked the entire course--straight up and down the main road and all the loops--two miles.  I am slow and would lose my breath if I weren't stopping to take pictures!  I am pleased with my progress and wonder how long it will be before I try to go further.  

I received Dawn's race report this morning!  She wrote, "The quick facts: 2.4 mile swim in a fjord after jumping off a car ferry; 112 miles of biking involving about 10,000 vertical feet of climbing up to the highest mountain plateau in Europe and then 4 mountain passes; 26.2 miles of running including over 4.5 miles at a 10% grade up Zombie Hill..."  Dawn is 40 years old!  She continues "It took me over 19 hours.  I was on my bike saddle for over 10 hours.  I vomited multiple times and passed and was re-passed by a group of three  begging sheep. Yes, sheep.  Sheep with bells.  And no, the sheep were not a hallucination."  It was a 6 page typewritten report of her performance during the race.  

I am very proud to know her and even prouder to know her as a member of our family.  She was the 212th finisher out of 215.  And ten competitors did not make it to the finish line.

She made it with the help of a good support team.  Dean managed to overcome my resistance to walking and all my children support me.  Chuck, Dean, Cheryl, and Missy.  I have, when younger, 
liked certain athletics--horse back riding and skiing--but fate intervened and I had to give them up.  Now I am trying to walk in the hope that my brain will become stronger.  That is my goal!  The greatest difficulty for me is to walk in all kinds of weather and to not
make excuses because of rain or snow or other kinds of inclement weather.   

Dogs I Have Met

I have just returned from my morning walk.  I covered the two mile regimen and am a bit tired.  Only now is the sun coming out.  It was overcast at 7 o'clock.  

My camera is proving to be a great incentive to walking!  I am not only anxious to take pictures, it gives me the opportunity to stop and catch my breath without appearing to need to do so.  And it has caused me to notice things that I never would have noticed before.

My neighbor, Lisa, drove by on her way to work and stopped to give me some blueberry coffee cake that she had baked.  We chatted for a few minutes.  I told her that Dean, my son, had called the night before to tell me that he and Dawn and my grandchildren, Travis, Charlie and Kady, were planning to come up for the Labor Day week-end.   I am thrilled!  They want to visit all their favorite places--Kimball's Farm, the Bonsai Store, the New Balance store!

My new friend, Linda, was being walked by her dog Scooter and we chatted for a while and I took another picture of Scooter.  She would like to have a copy of the pictures.

As I walked the second half of my walk, the bottom half of Merrimack Meadows, everyone seemed to be asleep!  No one as yet was stirring.  When I had almost completed the distance a woman came out of her house and greeted me.  She was very friendly and I asked her what breed of dog she was walking.  A "Sheet Tsu" she said in an accented voice.  I didn't recognize the accent so I asked her what country she was from.  She answered, "Persia." Her dog's name was Coco (it sounded like Cocoa) and she was very amenable to my photographing her dog.

I have, in a very short time of walking, met Scooter, Curly (Earl Gray), Freddy, Buster and Coco!  That's not bad!

“Petting, scratching, and cuddling a dog could be as soothing to the mind and heart as deep meditation and almost as good for the soul as prayer.”
― Dean Koontz, False Memory

Retrospective on Modesty

When did we, as a society, begin to find pictures of women in their scanty underwear acceptable?  Pictures that reveal women in the tiniest of brassieres and bikini pants!  Pictures that, in my lifetime, were considered to be pornographic?  And when did women start revealing so much of their breasts?  Men used to pay for such pictures.  

Many women, rich or not so rich, dress as if they were porn stars. Traditionally, it was considered provocative in arousing men's sexual desires.  Today is it some perverse statement of "look, but don't touch?"  In an era of women demanding equal rights, are women degrading themselves by flaunting their sexuality?

I wouldn't be so concerned if I didn't have two daughters, eleven granddaughters, and three great granddaughters.  My daughters are working as well as seven of my granddaughters.  They are a working pool of nine women.

When I was growing up and learning about the ways of the world, I was taught that  "modesty" was a virtue.  A highly regarded virtue. Modesty has lessened in value and now "keeping  up with the times" means wearing very revealing clothes.  The picture gets a little bit fuzzy because a woman's age becomes a factor.

How does a woman of 79 give up her cultural conditioning and learn to adopt new ways that contradict her values?  Not in the way she dresses, but in her attitude to others who dress provocatively.     

Moon Over Merrimack Meadows

Honey Badger posted a great video on Facebook that followed a young girl on the Scottish Extreme Triathlon.  It was fascinating to watch and inspired me to go on my walk.  What is the opposite of extreme?  The OED defines it as 1 to the highest degree.  2 highly unusual.  3 very severe or serious.  4 not moderate.  5 furthest from the centre or a given point.  I will have to think about it!

Honey Badger and my son Dean just returned from Norway where Dawn ran the Norseman Extreme Triathlon.  She did not win but she completed it and won a T Shirt!  My son coached her and ran the last 10 miles with her.  It has the reputation of being the most difficult extreme triathlon in the world.

I suppose I could  say that my Walking Project is 1 to the lowest degree. 2 highly usual. 3 very moderate.  It is furthest from the centre or a given point in the opposite direction!  I walked two miles this morning.  I don't have a goal other than increasing my distance and my stamina.  I hope to improve my health and most especially improve my brain!  

Walking this morning was very pleasant.  It was very cool and quieter than usual.  I started at 6:30 a.m. and there was very little traffic since it was Saturday.  Linda was walking Scooter and we chatted for a few minutes.  

It was after 7 o'clock when I reached the second half of the walk and I was surprised to see the moon shining in a clear blue sky!  The sun and the moon were both shining! 

"We are sun and moon, dear friend; we are sea and land.  It is not our purpose to become each other; it is to recognize each other, to learn to see the other and honor him for what he is: each the others opposite and complement."

Herman Hesse, Narcissus and Goldmund 

Meet Freddy!

Meet Freddy!  He is the first dog I met

as I started my walk at 6:45 this morning.  He was very friendly and cooperative at posing for my camera.  His mistress was also very friendly.  I wonder if dogs take on the personality of their owners?

I was very happy because Cheryl (my daughter) rescued me from the discouragement I felt (at losing 2 days photographs).  She recovered the photos I thought I had lost yesterday and led me through how Picasa works.  A feat that isn't easy on a long distance call from Arizona to Massachusetts and considering that I am trying to remember the workings of a former computer with impaired memory! 

I continued walking to the entrance. It is slightly uphill so I look forward to an easier downhill walk on returning.  The loops I take are a mix of up and down hill.  I am wondering if I will see anything to photograph today.  I planned to retake some of the pictures that I think I lost, although Cheryl thinks they may be hiding in an as yet unknown file. 

The birds are singing their songs and I wonder if they have any awareness that their form of communication is so lovely.  It reminds me of a musical play in which most dialogue is sung.  "Oh what a beautiful morning!  Oh what a beautiful day!  I've got a wonderful feeling, everything's going my way!"  (Oklahoma!)

Nothing extraordinary occurs to me so I decide to photograph the flowers that appeal to me.  I have reached my starting point now (my condo) and have walked one mile.  I take a deep breath and pause long enough to take a picture of my open garage which I agreed to rent to the company that is residing the condos.  Then I begin to walk the second half of the complex.  There are three loops on this walk.  There must be some way of drawing on this blog but I don't know how and don't feel like tackling it just yet!  I haven't entirely figured out how to post my pictures!

I am once again impressed by how tall the trees have grown.  And how well they preserved the landscaping when they built this complex.  When I reached Myrna's condo her husband Earl was standing on the porch.  Myrna joined him and I gave her the photographs I had taken of our walk together behind the condos and in front of the river.  She liked the pictures and we chatted for a few minutes.  They are a lovely couple and I am very blessed to have met them.

I completed my walk and have completed my blog and without pictures again because of my lack of computer-ease.  I'll try to sort it out before tomorrow!

The Hills Are Alive

"The hills are alive with the sound of music..." was my first thought when I went walking this morning at 6 o'clock.  It is already growing darker but the trees were filled with birds chirping!  It was a lovely chorus of sound and the surrounding of trees reminded me of "The Sound of Music" and Maria.  I took my camera again and wore my purple Nike's.  It was cool for walking at 6 but it promises to be warmer weather again.  Based on my success yesterday, I decided to try walking the second half of the complex.  I made it except for the last loop!  Very close to two miles!  

The body, which can be very fragile when ill, is amazingly resilient to exercise.  And the fringe benefits of becoming aware of that is a new awareness of your surroundings.  I have been walking for a very short period of time and I am truly surprised by the improvement in my sense of balance.  A friend commented that I was also speaking faster and more fluently!  I still have memory black-outs but they seem to be age appropriate.  They may occur less frequently  if I become more active.  

I only encountered two other walkers today and met one dog named Buster.  He was a small black dog and his name suited him.  On returned to my condo the black and white cat was in my yard.  I attempted to photograph him but you have to snap the shutter fast with a cat! 

Frustration!

The Oxford English Dictionary defines it very well!

1 prevent a plan or action from succeeding.
2 prevent someone from doing or achieving something.
3 make someone feel dissatisfied or unfulfilled. 
frustrating - adjective
frustration - noun

All three definitions are very succinct and describe perfectly how I am feeling.  For two days now I have tried to download photographs on my computer.  Something I have done successfully many times.  But for the last two days I have hit a wrong button and my photographs have been deleted from my camera.  Grrrrrrrr!  I am very unhappy!   Yesterday Cheryl tried to help me and we were on the phone for at least two hours to no avail.

I am feeling unfulfilled because I cannot remember some of the information that I know is in my brain.  I am wondering why God would create us to become senile in old age.  I am feeling stupid and worthless.  My blog is not finished for yesterday (part of my walking regimen) and now I want to be cheery and upbeat and I'm anything but!!  I have adjusted to many changes with good humor and grace but frustration is my waterloo.  I do not handle it, it handles me. 

Increasing My Distance

I didn't get started as early as usual this morning, but I left with my camera around my neck, looking forward to my adventure.  It was a few minutes after 7 o'clock.  And I learned that the experience was very different at 7 than it has been at 6.  I prefer the earlier hour.  There were no other walkers walking their pets!  Probably because they were getting ready for work.  My first encounter was with a cat!  He walked over to check me out but, as usual, he (or she) ignored me and sauntered on his or her way. I am a dog person but I do have one cat friend.  A beautiful long haired white cat who lives with my friend Julie.  

Several cars drove by as I walked along, one of whom was Sue, a friend that I play dominoes with.  She slowed down and stopped for a few minutes and, as she drove off, I realized I had missed a good photo op!  Oh well, I'll catch her another day.

I followed my path walking to the entrance and returning by taking all the loops (five in number).  I took about 20 pictures trying to capture the beauty of our very tall trees.
Just as I was returning to my condo I saw Myrna, another member of the Domino Group, walking up the hill.  I joined her and decided to try the back half.  Her husband, Earl, had driven through all the possible side loops and the main thorough fare in his car and discovered it was 2 miles of walking.  Myrna and I walked down the street to the end and decided to explore the back of the final row of condos, on which she lived, to see the river which is the end of Merrimack Meadows.  It is called the Mighty Merrimack because it provided the power to support all the fabric factories that put Lowell and Lawrence on the map.  It is really very beautiful and we leisurely explored the area.

 

Then we started back towards my condo which is located about half way down the main road.  

It was a great walk!  Tomorrow I will try walking the longer distance 
and  add the loops on to the other half!!  And I will try for 6 o'clock and meet the dogs again!

Blogging Is A Lot Like Walking

Blogging is a lot like walking.  It should be done every day and early in the morning.  I have started a regimen of walking in order to overcome my bout with leukemia.  I have never been a very athletic person.  It doesn't come naturally to me.  And I blog intermittently.  This morning, during my walk, I had the idea that perhaps blogging about my progress might prove to be an impetus to walking.  My two sons were also helpful. Chuck ran a hundred mile race and won on his first try!  He also ran the Boston Marathon twice.  And Dean has run triathlons and ironmans.  So, at the age of 79, I am hoping to train myself!

The first thing that I bought was a pedometer.  My first goal was to walk one mile, the approximate distance of walking to the entrance of Merrimack Meadows and returning, taking all the loops along the way.  Three on the left and two on the right.  It is the distance of one mile.  I am amazed that I can now manage a mile!  I added a "loop" this morning by going past my house.

My pedometer read 74 this morning.  I don't have a clue to what that means!  My pedometer measures distance or calories.  I will be spending time today reading and trying to understand my instruction manual.  I feel certain that knowing how far I've gone will add incentive to walking.

I am walking in black knit trousers and a t-shirt and, on days that are cool, I wear a gray sweatshirt.  I have bought two pairs of athletic shoes, a black, red, and fluorescent green from New Balance, and a pair of silver sneakers by Calvin Klein, from Marshalls.  I also have a pair of New Balance light weight, light gray sneakers, and purple Nike's.  It always helps to look good!

I usually start from my condo at 6 o'clock in the morning.  It is a very pleasant time to walk.  A few cars leave for work at that time and there are always other walkers.  One of the benefits is meeting other people and meeting their dogs!  I frequently meet a woman named Linda, who lives right behind me and who has a small black dog who is very friendly.  Yesterday I met a man who was walking a beautiful brindle colored greyhound and had a very interesting conversation.  His dog was named "Earl Gray" but called Curly because of his tail.  He was adopted from the greyhounds who race at Salem and Earl Gray had been a winner at the track.  He is now eleven years old and his racing days are over.  Today I met the man's wife who was walking Curly this morning.

The birds are still singing in the morning which is very pleasant  and I am making progress.  I am able to walk without my cane and am delighted that my balance is growing stronger.  I am also walking at a faster pace.  I hope that walking will help to improve my memory!  I am enjoying nature, the lovely trees and beautiful flowers and a serenity of spirit.